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Let it be known that every of these topics can also be read in our journals here in this website.
Topics:
*Who am i and whi should you listen to me
August 2005. published on the internet December, 2005
*His late appearance, Conclusion
Novenber 2005
*Grudges against God
March 2006
*Does God really love anyone
April 2006
*Many things we don't understand
July 2006
When God seem to be selfish
September
Links:
“Sometimes it’s hard to believe God is not selfish whenever I remember my life is all about His purpose” ...buf akpan
I did not choose my parents, I did not choose my location and colour, Someone did, even though it took me ages to accept the fact that my location is the best that can ever happen to me. After all, many are today given birth to in a royal family, brought up with golden spoon and are often seen to be having all the pleasures they desire and I know all men were sometimes equal but the differences in our situation came when some men decided to create a change, which has greatly influenced their lineage and they are seen as rich folks who sometimes oppress the people who believe they are poor. And I ask myself “what would it have taken God to make me a member of the royal family in England? Nothing but because He knows I will be productive here.
Location is one things value is everything.
…buf akpan
The father, gave up His son on the cross to gain us entrance into His kingdom, yet many of us say God disappoints and if He actually disappoints, it means His son In whom He is well pleased was not spared and even the twelve the Son, Jesus, chose, who we think should have the best of all things in life because they teamed up with the Master of all things in whom all the saint are perfected including you, but they all died and sorrow filled the hearts of those that were around because they felt their deaths were miserable.
Most of us today, if given opportunity, have lot of stories of success and failures, joy and sadness, pleasure and pains, but it takes a man of understanding in God to really say God is faithful in difficulties. Someone asked me: “where was God when I needed Him?” and I said He’s always around but does His things at His own timing, because we are made for His purpose, which is why He seems to be agonizingly slow in the things we think is the best for us at our own timing, without considering His timing for those desires.Isaac was not born unto Abraham until the timing was specified. “…time of life…” (Compare Gen 18:9,14 and Gen 21:2).
Many even claim their lives are all about Jesus but still find it difficult to let go some things and when disappointment comes, God is held responsible.
I do not have two things to advocate. Sticking close to God is the only solution I can offer because His choice for you will remain the best. He knows the end of the pains you might be into, give Him the chance to handle it.
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I love you but the Lord loves you more than I do.
Yours at-all-times
I can remember those days of terrible experiences with ladies. My dating experiences were always flops even with good intentions.
"It’s not enough to be attractive but keeping whatever you attract is"
…buf akpan
I discovered I attracted ladies a lot but was always repelling them whenever they came closer and I thought what was wrong with me was more of spiritual because I had no idea of why I could not keep a relationship with the fact that I used to be a beggar which often repels people, even my family members from me. I was always appealing to self pity because I lacked the knowledge of who I was and what I stand to become.
This exactly is the reason I strongly believe that judging people based on who they are and not what they stand to become is being short sighted.
Now our values do not come from others but from within us which introduces the fact that who you are today is an indication that you will be better and always be better when knowledge is constantly improving through information that shapes us to our desired preconceived notions of the future to a level we begin to sense limitations in our direction....
read the concluding part below
I can remember the day I gave my complementary card to a lady. With the look she gave me, my conscious mind coded the fact that, she would have thought I had a very fat bank account without knowing that I had no dime, but another thought flushed in with the fact that I am actually rich which introduced a session of questions and answers in my mind because I asked, how? And the answer I got also started with the question,
"How many books have you written so far?"
"Five", I said,
"If you have written five good books, how rich do you think you are?" My mind asked and my reply was,
"I don't know"
Then the lecture about values started, all in my mind.
Measuring your worth with the physical cash you have is actually been stupid and unserious in any way because physical cash always lose it's value whenever there is inflation but your work will always increase in value whenever you eventually bring them out. These types of riches do not depreciate in value but always maintain its worth no matter how high the inflation is. The wealth of intelligence is one thing; the wealth of experience is everything.
Now our, relationships will only be better the moment we understand the concepts of value, it is in our minds that the liberation takes effect without any reservation.
Before, I always want to put on my best clothes and shoes whenever I was going to have a date, but on discovering my values, the story has changed like I can also remember the day I was supposed to visit a lady who I wanted to be a friend to because of her humor but when I measured my self esteem I noticed it was about fifty percent because of the disappointment i experienced. Then I said to myself "I don't think I should visit her now until my recovery".
Today I deliberately create scarcity to avoid the misconception of people around me because people often criticize what they don't understand even though am not conscious of criticism, I am conscious of accountability.
For more articles on related topics like, Saying Yes, Creating A Standard, visit: http://dupsolutions.spaces.live.com
I love and appreciate you so much. God bless you.
buf akpan
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